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12 Ways to Cope with Setbacks

12 Ways to Cope with Setbacks

By Chuck · 1 Comment ·

There are days when you feel broken, and you can’t seem to get out of your own way.

Anyone who has stepped foot in a gym, with purpose, will experience a setback along the way.

There are times when your body doesn’t share your ambitions. It views your training as abuse, and it rebels by breaking down.

Presently, I am dealing with a couple injuries.

I burned out in late June, I struggled in July, and I finally took the month of August off. No CrossFit, no lifting. I focused on rest and recovery. I learned to adjust my diet to consume fewer calories and I monitored my macronutrients to support my reduced level of activity. During my self-imposed exile, I lost five pounds, and most of it was fat.

In September I came back strong, consciously limiting my CrossFit to two or three days a week. I gained much more than I lost with my brief sabbatical. October was similar, my lifts had dropped by 5-10%, but my form was better and I felt well.

I thought I was getting back into a comfortable pattern. CrossFit a couple days a week, and do Olympic lifting a couple days a week. I was actually reducing CrossFit activity to focus more on lifting.

But last week I hit it hard and I was having a ball. Eight workouts in seven days, lots of step-ups or box jumps, and plenty of barbell work, snatches, cleans, jerks, thrusters, deadlifts. I felt great all week. Then last Sunday morning I got up and I couldn’t walk. My Sciatic nerve was caught in a vice somewhere and the pain shot through my lumbar, glute, groin and right leg. The pain was so intense I was brought to my knees.

Here I am, one week later, imaging, chiropractic visits, electrical stimulation, heat, cold, fascial abrasion, manipulation, deep tissue massage, and I still hurt. I am much better, but I am still hurting. Without going into much detail I will simply say that I need some downtime. My Chiro, a fellow CrossFitter, has instructed me to lay low for the time being, no CrossFit, no Barbell Club, no, no, no….

There is a big part of me that is afraid I’ll go insane. I miss the sound of barbells slamming. I miss the crappy hip-hop music I love to hate. I miss the trash talking guys and the tattooed girls. I miss the challenge of pushing myself to get one more rep, one more jump, one more pound on the bar.

There is a lot going through my mind. How long will this last? What will I do during this recovery? How will I cope? How will I turn this setback into an opportunity?

Rather than dwell on what was beyond my control, I decided to look at other areas of my life (body, mind and spirit) that need improvement. How can I continue to challenge myself? How can I continue to improve, even if I don’t have anything as rigid as a barbell to define my success?

As I began thinking about these, I realized I don’t need to be injured to incorporate these into my daily or weekly routines.

  1. Trails walks until the snow flies
  2. Catch up on my sleep (8+ hours a night)
  3. Do bodyweight exercises until I get back into the gym
  4. Prayer, meditation and relaxation
  5. Organize my physical workspaces for optimized productivity and reduced stress
  6. Read some of the books collecting dust on my bedside table
  7. Get reacquainted with my guitar, that I haven’t touched since I met my first barbell
  8. Study more about rest and recovery
  9. Redesign my webpage
  10. Write more purposefully and consistently
  11. Work on mobility, flexibility, balance and coordination
  12. Study Olympic Lifts from YouTube and practice visualization techniques

I recent weeks, I have read many comments by Masters who are struggling with health or injuries. I do not make light of the frustration these setbacks may bring. But conversely, it may be an opportunity to sharpen your saw in other areas of your fascinating life.

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  1. Don Frye says

    November 7, 2014 at 4:54 pm

    Chuck…great blog post. As a life-long athlete, I hit a similar crossroad a couple years ago. I've played a lot of sports and played them all with reckless abandon…knowing that someday I would have to pay the price for all the injuries.

    That was near the end of 2012…I had been playing baseball competitively for almost 20 years and found that I was wishing for rainouts because I was sore, tight, and constantly twinging old and new injuries. I thought I was getting the "signal" that it was time to <gasp> retire. I am "that guy" when it comes to competitive sports…I was dreading how I would possibly survive without playing sports…

    I took one last shot at self-healing right around the start of 2013. I decided to invest in a set of DVDs called "DDP Yoga". It was a program formerly branded as YRG (Yoga for Regular Guys) and evolved from a recovery program that professional wrestler Diamond Dallas Page incorporated for himself…and after a few weeks of that program I was feeling more flexible and in a lot less pain. Well, you kind of know the rest of my story — Kymberlee talked me into trying CrossFit (which I wouldn't have considered a few months earlier) and I am still playing baseball and flag football. I think that yoga is the perfect "yin" to CrossFit's "yang".

    (Holy rambling…just realized how long this comment is!) Chuck, I think you have amazing insight and your 12-point list is great — if you're looking to append to that, I'd recommend yoga (doesn't have to be DDP…I'm not a paid endorser but I am a believer) and also Dr. Kelly Starrett's Mobility WOD (you alluded to that on item 10 so maybe you're already all over it).

    …but stay away from the crappy hip-hop music that you love to hate. Your ears will thank you. ; )

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